perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home.
As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good
for the four-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though Shane
might learn something from the experience.
The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as
Belker's family surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for
the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a
few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away. The little boy seemed to accept
Belker's transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for
a while after Belker's death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal
lives are shorter than human lives.
Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, "I know
why."
Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me.
I'd never heard a more comforting explanation. He
said, "People are born so that they can learn how to live a good life --
like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?" The four-year-old
continued, "Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don't have
to stay as long."
Why
dogs don't live longer than people...
Being
a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year- old Irish Wolfhound
named Belker. The dog's owners, Ron, his wife, Lisa, and their little boy, Shane,
were all very attached to Belker and they were hoping for a miracle. I examined
Belker and found he was dying of
cancer. I
told the family there were no miracles left for Belker, and offered to
Live
simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.
